Something is causing confusion within the ummah at the moment, and we can summarize it as the commercialisation of Islam. It happens on different levels, and while people can complain that this is not adherent to Islam, the truth is that this ship has sailed a long time ago.
I was watching a YouTube video of a Muslim comedian. She was wearing a hijab and that's where the Islam began and ended. Her jokes, which were directed to a Western audience, tried to show the lighter side of Islam, but ended up being distasteful and crude by any standards.
I met a wonderful brother who is a volunteer at one of our local masjid. We heard one day that his wife passed away, but he was back at the masjid a couple of days after her demise, performing his routine volunteer duties as usual such that one would not realise that her death affected him unless one looked for the subtle changes in his normal demeanour.